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As I prepare for whatever may happen with Hurricane Irene, I am reminded of my friend Jamie’s experience at using the Law of Attraction to avert a rainy day experience in New York City.
I have a show of my photographs scheduled for tomorrow in the garden of a gallery (if you are in the Hamptons, NY, please come by: 112 Hampton Street, Sag Harbor at 6pm).
So, I pulled out our Clarity Worksheet (members it is available in our Member Library – just scroll down to the bottom of the page) and worked through it, creating my Clear Vision (which is the first step in our Law of Attraction Success Method) for what I want tomorrow. Plus, it was fun to do.
I believe that if enough people create a Clear Vision of Hurricane Irene veering out to sea and not smashing the coast at all, then that’s what will happen, but here’s what I see happening in many cases:
We watch the news and think, “oh, it’s coming!” and we imagine it coming and envision it coming – I mean, we see these maps with it coming straight for us, it leaves little to the imagination.
So, instead, let’s each create a new map in our minds and focus on THAT map. Here’s mine. It is a little rough, but it gives you the idea – Irene veers out to sea and does not hit any more land.
For the fun of it, why don’t you share this vision with me! Pass it along, and let’s see what happens!
And another LOA thought from Irene:
I saw one man have a spectacular wipe-out. When he came up, there was another wave heading right for him. I could see him start to try to go over the way for an instant, but then he made a quick switch and turned and rode the wave farther in to shore – going with the flow.
Reminds me of the LOA metaphor that Abraham-Hicks use so often: upstream versus downstream.
So often we try to fight the current of our lives that is actually taking us where we want to go.
When you let go and ride the wave – or the current – you can be in for the thrill and joy ride of your life!
When you struggle against the waves, you make little if any progress and can get smashed along the way.
Katherine C. H. E.
CEO and Founder
iaLOAp® — international association of Law of Attraction professionals®
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As you know, I am a Law of Attraction Expert. I’ve studied and I teach and I coach, and I am still learning — all the time.
Life experience is truly the best teacher I’ve found.
And every now and then, I also have a break-through from something I read or hear in a new or different way.
That happened this week while I was teaching.
I read a quote from Abraham-Hicks that included this bit:
Abraham: …So let’s say you are focused upon the things you like the most about this person. And you beat the drum of those things.
Maybe there’s 10 things don’t like and one thing that you do, but you beat the drum of the thing that you like. You beat the drum of what you want, which is not the predominant part, let’s say, for sake of our example.
So what happens is you activate within yourself the very best that you’ve seen in this person, which means you activate that in them, which means your relationship gets better. But let’s say the part that you’ve activated, which means the most to you, is a very small part of who this person has practiced being.
A: And so, as you make yourself not a reflector of who this person is, but a reflector of only a part of who this person is, you stay in alignment, but you lose your connection with this person because you begin offering a vibration that is different from who this person is. In other words, as you look at this person in his entirety and you beat the drum of everything that he is, you’re a perfect reflection of who he is, and it’s logical that he would be in your life forever — all of the parts. But if you’re only beating the part that means the most . . .
~ North Los Angeles, 8/17/03
I’ve read that quote hundreds of times. I’ve taught using it before, and I’ve posted in on various LOA forums. I think it is so powerful and rich in information that can help create and heal relationships.
What jumped out in an entirely new way was the bit that says: Aha!
What we focus on we activate within ourselves.
OK, so maybe that should be a “DUH” rather than an “aha,” but I got it in a deeper way.
We activate the vibration within ourselves and then attract matching vibrations.
When it comes to relationships, if the other person is at or near that vibration and would like to be in that vibration, THEN we’ll get a match from that person. If not, then we probably won’t get to hang out with that person…
But, the main thing is ACTIVATE THE VIBRATION WITHIN OURSELVES.
It is not about creating something in the other person or bringing OUT something in the other person, it is all about ME and what I activate in MYSELF and (then, through the LOA) attract more of — wherever it comes from.
YAY! Simple. Elegant. Powerful.
What are YOU activating in YOU that you’ll be summoning forth in the moments to come??
What do you want to summon forth?
We all forget who we are sometimes, and I had such a moment in the wee hours of this morning.
I felt hurt by my sweet man. I felt self-righteous and indignant and got up to send him an e-mail that reflected that. And, there in my inbox was the Abraham-Hicks quote of the day. When I saw it there, I KNEW it was going to contain EXACTLY what I needed to hear in that moment. I was not disappointed.
When you focus upon lack in an attitude of complaining, you establish a vibrational point of attraction that then gives you access only to more thoughts of complaint. Your deliberate effort to tell a new story will establish a new pattern of thought, providing you with a new point of attraction from your present, about your past, and into your future. The simple effort of looking for positive aspects will set a new vibrational tone that will begin the immediate attraction of thoughts, people, circumstances, and things that are pleasing to you.
When I read that, it actually felt impossible to me, but I’ve experienced their wisdom enough to know they were right.
So, instead of the scathing e-mail, I sat down to write the story of how I wished our encounter had gone instead. I’ll skip the details and share where it took me, and for those of you not familiar with what I wrote at the end, check out my recent blog on Ho’Oponopono and the Law of Attraction.
… We always do what we can to fulfill each other’s heartfelt requests, and when we do not or cannot, we acknowledge that the request was made and explain why.
We are each responsible for our own happiness and we treasure and honor the privilege of being so close of being let “in” to each other’s hearts. We hold each other’s hearts gently and lovingly and respectfully.
We know things about each other that no one else in the world knows – if only our shared experiences, but it goes deeper. We know each other’s tender spots. We know each other’s wounds. We know each other’s triggers. We know each other’s fears. We know the places where we each find separation from the Oneness of our being. We love those places. We kiss those places. We may not agree and we may even feel hurt by them, but we realize that these places are not rational, are not logical. These tender spots are not where truth lies, but they are what make us human, and in our human journey together, we rejoice at the opportunity to experience those places in ourselves and to have the honor to get close enough to another to experience those places in the other as well.
Sometimes those tender spots are not even compatible, and that is when we take extra care and love – when one person’s wound wants space and the other’s wants closeness to heal, for instance. How to reconcile that? It takes extra love and tenderness and care – because we both know that when our wounds conflict is when we can both misunderstand each other the most and feel the most misunderstood. We can even feel unloved in those moments, but we know the deeper truth.
We both strive each day to preserve and protect what we have together, in every way we interact with each other and the way we carry ourselves in the world. What we have is so special, so rare, so wonderful. It is worth the effort. It is a joyful effort that pays off a million-fold in the beauty and joy and love that it brings back into our lives.
We are each human. We have reactions. We feel depleted and blame the other. We feel hurt and blame the other. We feel angry and blame the other. We feel attacked and blame the other. We feel abandoned and blame the other. We feel the other is being unreasonable. We feel misunderstood and blame the other. We feel unloved and blame the other. We feel un-heard and blame the other. We are each human.
We have those passing thoughts and reactions. They are connected to our tender spots, to our wounds. One of the main reasons we have come together, that our souls helped us to find each other is to offer the opportunity to heal those wounds, to not run away from them but to stand in them and with them and love them and heal them. We both know that if we run away at these wounded moments, we have not healed the wound and we will find another situation that creates the pain to remind of the need for healing.
And, we each know all that even when we may not FEEL all that in a particular moment.
Our love is true and unconditional and unmarred by such emotional thrashing about. And, when we are not in that mode of reaction, we both Know Who We Are and What We Are: LOVE. And, we are delighted beyond words to share the experience of loving each other in a special way that includes a special closeness, … , and regular reminders of the beauty of two souls travelling a path together, the joy and fun of co-creation.
That is the story of my love.
Thank you. I love you. I forgive you. I forgive me. Thank you. I love you. I forgive you. I forgive me.
Abraham was right, focusing on what I want rather than how I had been “wronged” completely shifted my energy. I “know” this stuff. I know the power of this stuff. I teach this stuff, and sometimes I need to be reminded, too.
AND, a special thank you to Abraham: Thank you. I love you. I love me.
Katherine C. H. E.
CEO and Founder
iaLOAp — international association of Law of Attraction professionals
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